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The point is just to react level-headedly by trying to understand the other person's perspective and reason for saying what they're saying. It's a huge mistake to frame criticisms of tulpamancy from within the tulpa community's mindset. Where we may be assuming tulpas are legitimate people, and we're interacting with tulpas in the community daily - someone else simply hears "I hear a person in my head that I think is real and not me", which is perfectly fair to set off alarms when they have none of the same context as you. So just, be level-headed and consider their perspective (so you can know how to deal with the conversation better) (edited)

I don’t think you have to understand tulpamancy to still be friends. Gray's brother doesn't really understand tulpamancy but that's okay

which is why i think people should be able to not get angry at someone not understanding tulpamancy

its in the rules

if you get angry at your friend because they don't understand something, that's the opposite of what you are saying ranger

I feel like I missed something

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

which is why i think people should be able to not get angry at someone not understanding tulpamancy

i just realized thats in the rules

ye

anyone need the line

I feel like I missed something

@A long kiss goodnight - jump the conversation started with gaby being angry at their friend not treating their tulpa as gaby wished them to

If your friend doesn't understand tulpamancy, that's not the same thing as them rejecting you because they think you're a weirdo?

4:57 PM

I think I need to reread

I had this same issue earlier tbh

4:58 PM

I think gaby did too

4:58 PM

idk tho

4:58 PM

did you?

Khaos

I think gaby did too

yep

4:58 PM

i guess

Yeah I think its kit than

i dont rlly remember anymore

I think you were based on ur msgs earlier

4:59 PM

Kit doesn't seem to get it...?

yeah

.

Ranger ↩️

Reply to: I think I need to reread

i dont rlly wanna reiterate my point a 10th time tho

true

5:00 PM

I had this issue before with Kit

5:01 PM

I think ranger should read down

Ranger ↩️

Reply to: I think I need to reread

long story short if it feels human its rlly hard to se them as otherwise

yep

so yeah

5:02 PM

i cant reallly treat them as my imagination

yep but we need Ranger to read down rn

because my braint dosent have the capacity to do that imo

do we ping them or what?

5:02 PM

very fair.

gabyesola ↩️

Reply to: because my braint dosent have the capacity to do that imo

Khaos

yep but we need Ranger to read down rn

as in go here

Khaos

very fair.

if someone told me your brain can make a person with likes dislikes opinions expiriences

5:03 PM

etc

5:03 PM

id tell them to go to a hospital

.

Khaos ↩️

Reply to: Kit doesn't seem to get it...?

5:04 PM

Have you read our recent messages ranger?

Not sure what you guys are talking about anymore

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

you seem to get quite emotional about it khaos

I see Khaos venting about someone talking about wanting them to dissipate Misty, but I don't see anything on Gaby? (edited)

me neither tbh

A long kiss goodnight

I see Khaos venting about someone talking about wanting them to dissipate Misty, but I don't see anything on Gaby? (edited)

im at the very very top

5:05 PM

see mythought thingie

The very beginning was you telling a friend you were happy?

you should see it soon

A long kiss goodnight

The very beginning was you telling a friend you were happy?

not rlly

Tbh if its about Kit's messages dw we are ALL there.

yukaritelepath ↩️

Reply to: Not sure what you guys are talking about anymore

5:06 PM

Musty lmao

Ranger ↩️

Reply to: I see Khaos venting about someone talking about wanting them to dissipate Musty, but I don't see any…

5:06 PM

Musty Misty

oh, sorry

ur fine

5:06 PM

its funny

5:06 PM

I might call him that now

5:06 PM

He already had a reaction xD

the very beggining was my letter to the comunity

(wait that means he was watching our whole convo-)

Khaos ↩️

Reply to: He already had a reaction xD

5:07 PM

ye

gabyesola ↩️

Reply to: the very beggining was my letter to the comunity

Khaos

(wait that means he was watching our whole convo-)

eh emily was too

5:07 PM

she just didnt wanna get into it

I think Misty didn't either

5:08 PM

I tried shoeing him away earlier when Ethera was mentioned about her... views.

5:08 PM

while being plural

5:08 PM

I think he secretly watched since than

i had to tell her to go because i dint want her to hear the convo

I keep him away from drama bc I don't want him to have the same thing happen to a 'host'

5:09 PM

sameee

gabyesola ↩️

Reply to: i had to tell her to go because i dint want her to hear the convo

gabyesola

i thought of putting this in a friends dms but this is a message the whole comunity needs to hear and i thought this would be the best way to do it

This is about a conflict with your friend? I thought you were thanking them

but ig they both rebelled

A long kiss goodnight

This is about a conflict with your friend? I thought you were thanking them

not at all

5:09 PM

i said possive things in a negative way

5:10 PM

people got worried

5:10 PM

things snowballed from there

5:10 PM

changing topics

I think I understand now

Yeah I think it didn't help since Kit kind of confused everybody tbh

5:10 PM

I thought it was just me than like the others

her examples were weird

5:11 PM

too

true and we kept having to repeat stuff

I... don't think I can add anything else to the original conversation at this point

Misreading (if that's what happened, An never said she did) happens, all good

it wasn't just today where I had to do that

if a paint has asbestos you throw it out of their reach lol

I think she might have misunderstood but its all fine. oh and point one nobody usually could to these situations.

Ranger ↩️

Reply to: I... don't think I can add anything else to the original conversation at this point

Misreading …

and the fact we all wanted to move

5:13 PM

but

That comparison is assuming the person has good technical knowledge of tulpamancy, but someone just hearing about tulpamancy and saying it's bad is more like "You're painting your house? But paint has asbestos and can make you sick"

"in my eye it has to do with tulpas"

yeah

5:13 PM

I think Kit did misread or misunderstood

5:13 PM

not sure

5:14 PM

she says she didn't misread so

5:14 PM

misunderstood

5:14 PM

I mean points were repeated with no avail

this was th weirdest educational convo ive ever had

Alright, I think we get it, I don’t want this to turn into An bashing

Ranger we aren't trying to bash her